The truth is that I am in a male dominated society.
It is difficult to do what you want as a women.
But women will face more difficulties when she want to have that she want. Here I am not expert suggest for what should you do and don’t.
Here I am sharing what I felt after NIRBHAYA incident.
So, long back when i was 15, used to go to school by bus and we girls, 6 or 7 I can’t remember the exact number, we travel together. One day i came to the bus stop, found that no girls were there and saw only men and boys in the bus.
This was the only bus which goes to our school. Seeing all the men & boys I got nervous and very scared. So I decided to return home but fortunately I met my senior who encouraged me not to scared or nervous. After that I never got that felling.
Few years later that feelings were scared me again, this time I was giving 1st year of M.A… same situation all the bus seats are filled with men, young boys, middle aged men.
This time no one was there to encouraged me I had to took my seat in the bus. I had to sat between the men or next to them. I didn’t want to get touch by them or feel by them.
All the journey, till i reached the exam center I was not comfortable, i was wiping my face, I didn’t want to move an inch, I was staring all of them… if someone smiled at me I stared doubting him. I was preparing myself for any bad situation, it was really very very scary, I was shaking because all the time i was thinking about NIRBHAYA also and those animals who did such brutality with her.
This shows that i was not trusting any man… I think not only me many girls, women can’t trust men or boys after NIRBHAYA . I really don’t know what security measures we should take, how we have to behave , how we have to dress, how we have to talk and whom to talk etc..
But i want know if it is a male dominated society then why we girls are not feel protected. Obviously its a failure of “male dominated society”…. Still I CAN’T TRUST MAN.
Question arises if man will ever be able to gain TRUST of women.