{"id":2708,"date":"2020-06-24T13:57:40","date_gmt":"2020-06-24T13:57:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.chandamama.in\/story\/?p=2708"},"modified":"2020-06-24T13:57:42","modified_gmt":"2020-06-24T13:57:42","slug":"aftereffects-of-nirbhaya","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.chandamama.in\/story\/2020\/06\/24\/aftereffects-of-nirbhaya\/","title":{"rendered":"Aftereffects OF NIRBHAYA"},"content":{"rendered":"Reading Time: <\/span> 2<\/span> minutes<\/span><\/span>\n

The truth is that I am in a male\u00a0 dominated society.\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is difficult  to do what you want as a women. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But women  will face more difficulties  when she want to have that she want. Here I am not expert suggest for what should you do and don’t. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here I am sharing  what I felt after NIRBHAYA  incident.       <\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, long back when i was 15, used to go to school  by bus and we girls, 6 or 7 I can’t  remember the exact number, we travel together. One day  i came to the bus stop, found that no girls  were  there and saw only men and boys  in the bus. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This was the only bus which  goes to our  school.  Seeing all the men & boys I got nervous and very scared.  So I decided  to return  home but fortunately I met  my senior who encouraged  me not to scared or nervous. After that I never got that felling.        <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Few years later that feelings were scared me again, this time I was giving  1st year of M.A… same situation all the bus seats are filled with men, young boys, middle aged men. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This time no one was there to encouraged me I had to took  my seat in the  bus. I had to sat between  the men or next to them. I didn’t  want to get touch by them  or feel by them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

All the journey, till i reached  the exam center I was not comfortable, i was wiping  my face, I didn’t  want to move an inch, I was staring  all of them… if someone  smiled  at me I stared doubting  him. I was  preparing  myself  for any bad situation, it was really  very very scary, I was shaking because  all the time i was thinking  about  NIRBHAYA  also and those animals who did such  brutality  with her.       <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This shows  that i was not trusting any man… I think not only me many girls, women can’t  trust men or boys after NIRBHAYA . I really  don’t  know what security  measures  we should  take,  how we have to behave , how we have to dress, how we have to talk  and  whom to talk etc.. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But i want know if it is a male dominated society\u00a0 then why we girls\u00a0 are not feel protected<\/strong>. Obviously its a failure\u00a0 of “male dominated society”….\u00a0 Still\u00a0 I CAN’T TRUST MAN.\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Question\u00a0arises if\u00a0 man will ever be able to gain TRUST\u00a0 of women.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Reading Time: <\/span> 2<\/span> minutes<\/span><\/span>The truth is that I am in a male\u00a0 dominated society.\u00a0 It is difficult  to do what you want as a women. But women  will…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1586,"featured_media":2712,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[572,804,314,805],"class_list":["post-2708","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-english","tag-english-article","tag-feminism","tag-nirbhaya-case","tag-trust"],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.chandamama.in\/story\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2708","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.chandamama.in\/story\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.chandamama.in\/story\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.chandamama.in\/story\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1586"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.chandamama.in\/story\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2708"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.chandamama.in\/story\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2708\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2711,"href":"https:\/\/www.chandamama.in\/story\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2708\/revisions\/2711"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.chandamama.in\/story\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2712"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.chandamama.in\/story\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2708"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.chandamama.in\/story\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2708"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.chandamama.in\/story\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2708"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}